Answer: I would say that that is a blessing from above. This is good! You are given an example of your egoism—how much you cannot stand others.
That is, you have an absolutely clear discernment of where and how you should correct yourself and, at the same time, how to measure your progress in relation to your friends, qualitatively and quantitatively. It will be clear to you.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 6/23/19