Question: Is it true that the method of Kabbalah helps a person reveal his destiny by sorting out his desires? How do we sort out the desires and thoughts that come to us?
Answer: You cannot do this—do not even think about it. Don’t think you are so smart, developed, and capable of sorting out desires and thoughts.
The only thing you can do is give the upper Light the opportunity to do this work. For that to happen, you must internally, mentally, and physically relax and agree with the fact that the upper Light controls you and let it work by itself. Start feeling its impact on you.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 2/11/18