Comment: There is an amazing way to get acquainted. Just imagine: a guy enters a room, and he is presented with a bunch of different test tubes. He has to determine which smell he likes best, which one he feels is closest to him. He picks one, and then they tell him: “This scent matches this specific girl.” It is the same for girls. She picks a scent, and they say: “Here is your guy.”

My Response: This is very important to us. The cells that respond to smell cover a huge area in our brain.

Question: So could this English method be considered advanced enough?

Answer: It is not advanced; it is old and natural.

Question: So can I actually choose a partner largely by smell?

Answer: Absolutely! There is no doubt that this is how we are drawn to or repelled from each other even unconsciously. And what about all that perfume and such? It is natural. But why am I saying this? That should not be the main criterion.

We should match not on the level of scent, although that is also very important, and not on the level of various other preferences, but on the level of understanding our proper direction toward the purpose of creation.

If we were all striving toward the true purpose of creation, it would have been much easier for us to find a partner, because in essence, we would not differ much from one another. We would not differ.

Question: So one goal, and we are already similar?

Answer: Yes, this goal would unite all of us.

Comment: But that is a very lofty idea. It is very high for young people to talk about the purpose of creation!

My Response: And in the end, what happens? It turns out very low.

Comment: Young guys talking about the purpose of creation?

My Response: They will not invent anything better. What they get is some kind of “love for an hour,” and that is the end of it.

Question: So what should they understand? The purpose of creation? What do you include in that?

Answer: Why am I getting married? Why should I tie my life to this person? In the end, married couples will not hold on to each other. People will just meet, have kids, and split up.

Question: That was exactly my question how can one find a partner for life? And are you saying that it can be done only by this criterion?

Answer: Only the final goal, that is what must hold us together.

Question: And why am I looking for a partner? Why do I get married?

Answer: To reach this ultimate goal together with my partner, in the correct connection with them. But for that, I also need friends and not just partners.

Question: But can you say what the specific goal is? What is the purpose of creation?

Answer: The purpose of creation is to reveal the upper force that governs us. To understand and attain why we exist, what is happening with us, who is leading us by the nose, and where we are being taken.

That is what we need to reveal—to open our eyes, in short, to where we really are.

Question: So that this thirst would be present in both of them, in a guy, in a girl, in people in general?

Answer: Yes, to reveal this need, and together with your partner, gradually move toward it.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 6/4/25

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