Neutrality Is a Must
Question: When I receive evil and aggression from a friend, do I just keep quiet and justify it as coming from the Creator, that there is none else besides Him? Can I somehow help my friend rise at this moment so he does not remain in an aggressive state?
Answer: This is a difficult question. Yes and no.
At least, do not respond to him aggressively. And also, not at this moment, but maybe later, show kindness.
Neutrality is mandatory here. Acting with kindness in response to aggression depends on the state your opponent is in at the moment. That is, how will it affect him? Will he take it correctly or not?
Maybe, on the contrary, it will bring out even more aggression in him. He barks at you, but you smile or want to kiss him, then he could hit you!
Therefore, you need to be very careful for your friend to perceive you correctly. You must understand him. You have to enter his state.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 9/4/19, Preparation for convention in Moldova “The Work in Concealment”
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