Question: You say that someone has great egoism, someone has small egoism, and in accordance with this, different conditions are given for correcting it by the Creator. But how do I know what my egoism is: big or small?
Answer: Why do you need to know this? There is no need. It is what it is. As they say: “The Creator gives a vicious cow no horns.”
Each person has some specific properties, and he works with them. So do not envy anyone. Each has his own set of corporeal and spiritual qualities that will help him reach the root of his soul.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah,” 3/8/20