Comment: It sounds like fantasy that an artificial game of love with complete lack of feelings can lead to spiritual outcomes.
Answer: You are absolutely right, this is impossible in our world.
But when we perform certain actions that spur and summon a certain secret force from above, even if we do not understand what it is, we actually feel the outcome.
We do not feel this secret force, just as we do not feel many forces that surround us, but when we arouse it, we feel its outcome inside us. Everything makes perfect sense.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 2/19/17