Question: How can we find external methods and tools for bestowal? Is it possible not to bestow to people, but to something else?
Answer: Basically, we should bestow to the Creator. We have to reach the right interaction with Him, adhesion with Him, and reach His revelation. This is the meaning of our existence.
If we establish the right connection with the Creator, people will of course feel better too. Not because we will begin to treat them better, but because the correct attitude toward the Creator invokes a positive effect on all created beings.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 11/27/16
What Can We Give The Creator?
Not In Words But In Deed…
How Can We Please The Creator?