Answer: When we disseminate, we should look for more inner connection with the people we disseminate to. Dissemination depends on how much we annul ourselves before them in our dissemination and, at the same time, bestow upon them.
It is like when parents relate to a small child. On one hand, the parents take care of him, guide him, and do everything for him, and on the other hand, they do everything according to his will, for his own good.
This should be our attitude towards people, just like a parent towards his child.
From the 2nd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 4/3/14, Q&A with Rav