Answer: Only the Upper Light corrects a person and nothing else. We cannot correct ourselves and attain a certain connection between us.
I am, for example, an ordinary person sitting before you and everything inside me is aimed inward. You look at me, but you don’t see my real face. I am focused totally inward—how I hear myself, how I see myself, how I feel myself. I feel this entire reality, the whole world inside me (we study this in the perception of reality).
Love is when I am in a state of turning myself inside out, but only under the influence of the Upper Light. I cannot do it on my own.
This happens when I feel whatever is on the outside as more important than what is inside me. This is called the revelation of the upper world that is external to me. A person suddenly discovers what is actually around him and sees that it is totally different from what it seemed to be. Now, he perceives everything inside him, while later, he will see the upper state. This is possible only under the influence of the Light.
Changing the vector from “myself” to “outside myself” is called integral education. This is what it exists for.
From KabTV’s “Secrets of the Eternal Book” 5/24/13