Question: From a spiritual point of view do we have to divide our attitude toward the family, humanity, the Creator, and myself equally?
Answer: No. The most important is the group because within it we obtain the necessary condition, the basis, meaning the freedom of choice, intention, and connection with the Creator. Everything is determined within the men of the Kabbalistic group. Women and the rest of the humanity connect to them. The inanimate, vegetative, and the animal parts of nature are under all of them.
Everything is determined within the men’s group between the friends. Women add their desires, their pressure, and they participate in this. However, the network is made between the men’s desires because it is precisely they that are directed toward bestowal, although without the women’s part they lack the pressure for this. This is just like Zeir Anpin
in relation to Malchut
. This means that we need each other. Everyone knowing their mission complements the other one and we gain the integral Kli
From the Kharkov Convention “Uniting to Ascend” 8/17/12, Workshop 5
A Harmonious Integration
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