Question: Why is one’s first love not realized? Why? What a feeling!

Answer: So you would always dream about it.

Question: About this kind of love?

Answer: About the very feeling of love, about this feeling. If you were to connect, you would have ruined this feeling. The Creator places it between people and it is in this spiritual form that you strive for it, but it is unattainable.

Question: So the Creator is saying, “Always remember it?”

Answer: Yes, it is in you somewhere.

Question: This feeling when you are ready to give up everything, forget about yourself, lose yourself in another?

Answer: Right.

Question: Is that what gets stuck in a person’s heart like a splinter and remains there forever?

Answer: Yes, everyone has it.

Question: Who do I love? Do I love this person at the time of first love?

Answer: No, you do not even see a person, actually. You are looking at them with the wrong eyes. You are pointed to some spark in a person that attracts you, and that is it. And you want to see this spark all the time.

Question: Is it so I would always look for this kind of love?

Answer: You do not even have to look for it; you are already hooked on it.

Question: Does this happen so I know that love exists?

Answer: Yes, so you know what longing is.

Question: And strive for it?

Answer: Yes, but, as a rule, no one marries their first love.

Question: Is there, as you say, the upper force behind this? Is the Creator behind all this?

Answer: Of course, it all goes according to the upper program! It is well thought out; this is how we get educated.

Question: Can we say that this means that the next sentence will be: “The Creator is love,” “God is love”? Is that what He wants to tell us?

Answer: In the end after you have lived one or more than one life and have accumulated several more such impressions from your first loves. Then you will feel what it truly is, “What is true love?”

Question: Then I will feel it was not about her, but all about the Creator?

Answer: Of course not about her. You did not even see her. They just put a spark in her you have been pursuing all along. So nothing is there.

Therefore, it is very, very rare that people meet for the first time (at school or somewhere else), fall in love, get married, have children, start a family, and so live out their lives. I have seen a few cases like this… I was always interested in watching them. As a rule, they have many children. And they somehow understand each other very, very clearly.

Comment: Yes, these are happy couples.

Answer: This is very rare.

Comment: It is some kind of gift from above.

My Response:: This is given so we realize that we need to seek eternal, upper, true love. Not man to man, or man to a party, or to the motherland. Only to the Creator. Through other people.

Comment: Through love for people, to love for the Creator.

My Response: Yes. Love for the Creator.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 7/6/25

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