Answer: It means that I constantly care about connecting with them. When I aspire to that, then I feel them in my aspiration: what I should connect to, what I should adhere to, what I should belong to.
Therefore, I no longer feel myself but my aspiration for them, the desire to feel them. It is an internal movement of the senses.
Question: Should I feel the aspiration of a friend?
Answer: You must feel your desire to connect with a friend.
From the World Kabbalah Convention in Moldova 9/5/19, Lesson 0