Answer: My advice to a married couple is: have children and agree that divorce is not an option. The couple should try to get along with each other.
We are living in hard times where each of us experiences difficult problems. All this must be accepted since we cannot change it. No matter how much we promise ourselves and others to be good and nice, this evaporates very quickly because we have no control over ourselves.
The family should be a strong cell that can clearly be called indestructible despite everything. Children should feel that they have a mother and a father that they can turn to, that they have a family.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 12/4/16