Answer: In order to feel hatred, you need to love very strongly, you need to yearn for love. We talk about this a lot in our lessons. All that happens to us, including even the worst things, is all for the good. All is given to us just so that we will rise above all that happens.
If we want to advance, we must advance towards love.
Let’s suppose that now I try to approach someone with love and as a result I feel mutual hatred from him towards me. But my love is only a formal one, and his hatred is, as if, real.
I begin to ask from the upper Light to build real love within me above this hatred. It is said, “Love covers all sins,” all the hatred.
Question: How is it possible to acquire real love all at once, bypassing hatred?
Answer: My yearning is only for love and whatever happens on the way is not important. The hatred will appear only so that you will rise above it and love others even more. But due to that, your love will increase and grow, thanks to the hatred that is constantly growing underneath it. It can’t be any other way, because the upper world was created by two contradictory and opposite attributes that connect to one complete whole.
From the European Convention in Germany 3/23/13, Lesson 5