A question I received: How is it possible to annul myself before my friend when I am only able to see his corporeal form?
My Answer: Don’t pay attention to the corporeal form; this world is an illusion (Olam Amedumeh). You need to notice only a person’s point in the heart. This is what you want to unite with. His personality may be unpleasant and he may not be someone that you like, but that belongs to the “animate” level, to his and your “donkeys” (egos).
When you focus on the spiritual goal and his point in the heart, you see a pure desire burning inside of him without any connection to his corporeal properties. The body has no significance at all. In the end, it is just dragged to the cemetery, as it is totally unnecessary.
But the point in the heart is the Creator in each of us. The Creator exists within every person in the world. However, He manifests openly among the friends of a Kabbalah group since He is the One who brought these spiritual points together so they will unite and come to Him. Therefore, you have to be grateful that this means was given to you.
From the 3rd part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 5/20/10, Article “Purpose of Society”
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