Rabash, Article No. 31, “Concerning Yenika [Nursing] and Ibur [Impregnation]”: …meaning that he cancels self-love, called Malchut, whose original essence is called “will to receive in order to receive,” and enters the vessels of bestowal, called Bina.
Answer: It means entering the quality of bestowal. Can someone understand at least a little of what bestowal means? That is, to feel someone’s desires so that a yearning awakens in me to fulfill not my own desires but the desires of another.
And I need my desires only to fulfill my neighbor. That is the way we need to work. Then we will begin to become like the Creator and feel what He feels, that is, the upper state.
From the International Convention “Rising Above Ourselves” 1/7/22, “Annulling before the Friends” Lesson 2