Question: At workshops you often ask questions about the importance of measuring closeness to the friends, connection between them, caring for the friends, etc. And each time it makes us very upset, we get lost, because it is completely incomprehensible how to measure emotions in changing situations. So what is the purpose of these questions? And how can we properly approach working with them?
Answer: It is good that you are worried and feel that you do not perceive the questions and cannot give an answer to them. It’s already good! And then we will continue like this until a real feeling comes to you.
Question: It seems that all my efforts and ability to do the right things are not my own actions, but are the result of the group’s influence on me. So how can I stick to a group when I don’t feel their influence?
Answer: Just stick to it as you can, internally. There is no other way out. Start working on it all the time! And suddenly you will find yourself glued to the group.
From the International Convention “Rising Above Ourselves” 1/7/22, “Adhering to the Friends” Lesson 3