By force, it seems to us that it is easier, that it is closer, that it is one action. And love, I have to fight against myself not against another. I have to show it. I need to make sure that the other person has felt my attitude toward him as correct and that I have already felt a certain response from him. That’s when you can say that I succeeded in my correction.
Question: Outwardly, should I show this love and the effort that I make on myself in order to love a person I do not love?
Answer: I have to play at it until I awaken the same reaction from the person to myself.
Question: So I should feel this mutual breath to feel the love between us?
Answer: Sure. Without this, it is considered that you did not show love, did not express it, that you, in turn, did not achieve love.
Question: This happens only when I overcome myself. Is there no such thing as simple, natural love? Is it not love?
Answer: No. This is all just philosophy.
From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” 7/15/21