Comment: The Torah examines four relationships between people. One of them: “What is mine is mine and what is yours is yours” is regarded as the worst and is called “Sodom.” And in our world it is considered normal.
My Response: No. This is an abnormal state because it cuts off all connections between people. I have no right either to give something to you or to receive something from you. So everyone in the society is absolutely isolated from each other. In addition, they even spy upon each other to comply with this condition.
Question: It is against unity, against the tendency of nature to bring us to one common whole?
Answer: This is completely against nature because nature is built on interconnection between atoms, particles, cells, and people at least in something, at least in some way. And here, everything is based on isolation.
The second state: “What is mine is yours, and what is yours is mine.” This is the essence of the nature of a primitive society where everything is common property: wives, children, dwellings, and animals. This state is characteristic of undeveloped egoism, in particular, of a primitive communal system.
The third state: “What is mine is yours, and what is yours is yours.” In the Torah, it is called Hesed.
This is a good but incomplete state in which I am practically locked on giving to another person and thinking about others.
This is good for small groups of people, for children, for weak societies, for the sick, and old people, when I give away and transfer everything to them. But this is a flawed state in which there is no flow of information and forces, no exchange. Everything goes in one direction, and nature is not built that way.
Nature is based on the fact that all of its parts are integrally locked in one common system, and between them there is an exchange of energy, information, and vital forces to support the entire system together in its integral, correct interaction.
The fourth state: “What is mine is mine, and what is yours is mine” is called “criminal”—when I get from society more than I should.
Basically, all these four types of interaction between people exist in egoism. None is perfect. Kabbalah raises us above them.
A perfect state is when we are in complete interaction with each other, in inclusion in each other. This is not the case in any of the four states.
From KabTV’s “Spiritual States” 5/13/19