Question: How can a woman rise to such a spiritual degree that will let her see a worthy husband in every bachelor?
Answer: You don’t have to be on a high spiritual degree for this. On the contrary, lower your nose to the material world and everything will be all right. You will immediately see worthy men around you.
Don’t assume airs, it’s not good. You will lose.
From the Kabbalah Lesson in Russian 12/4/16