No More Girls And Boys

Dr. Michael LaitmanIn the news (from Associated Press): “STOCKHOLM (AP) — At the “Egalia” preschool, staff avoid using words like “him” or “her” and address the 33 kids as “friends” rather than girls and boys….

Staff try to shed masculine and feminine references from their speech, including the pronouns him or her – “han” or “hon” in Swedish. Instead, they’ve have adopted the genderless “hen,” a word that doesn’t exist in Swedish but is used in some feminist and gay circles….”

The school is especially careful in selecting books and toys for children. It strives to give children the possibility to be who they are and to prevent them from developing barriers that separate masculine and feminine activities.

“There’s a long waiting list for admission to Egalia… It places a special emphasis on fostering an environment tolerant of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. …Nearly all the children’s books deal with homosexual couples, single parents or adopted children. There are no “Snow White,” “Cinderella” or other classic fairy tales seen as cementing stereotypes.”

My comment: We are surrounded by what is called “Nature.” We know virtually nothing about its laws, reasons, and the goals of its and our own existence. Yet, our observations and knowledge show that everything is in the process of causal development, and nothing is accidental or redundant. Whoever does not agree with this demonstrates their unfamiliarity with the laws of nature.

Hence, all we have to do is to study the laws of nature and carry them out. This will guarantee our good future. A breach of a natural relationship between the sexes brings about tremendous suffering in children and, as they grow up, problems with sexual and social identity.

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  1. Dear Dr. Laitman;
    I could not stop laughing. In America a “hen” is a female chicken. Sorry for their efforts but our Creator has them all as females.This is destructive to the male gender & masculinity more than any thing else. ( “chicken” is also a homosexual term among the men”)
    When men behave as women the imbalance brings more war, destruction, and severing of relationships.
    The result of “just be nice” is passive aggressive or concealed abuses. This causes them to internalize their anger because they can not be themselves naturally.
    I would enjoy walking in that school and telling the boys to be boys and letting the men be men. It is amazing the relief they experience when even in American society I tell men/boys. Go ahead just be a male, it is alright. enjoy yourself.
    I worked of 6 years in male adolescent corrections for TimberRidge /Leary Foundation in Cross Junction, Virginia.
    Further more when we are made physically different and our bodies, minds, even our cells are different we deny our selves of the joy of being.

  2. Man and woman should have the same value regardless of their different qualities as a man or woman according to the readings I´ve done on this blog. But this is not a fact in the corporeal world. Today the qualities of men have a much higher value than that of a woman.

    For me this example with the Egalia school looks as a misguided attempt to teach children to think outside of the box regarding sociaties values on gender rather than one that tries to make people asexual and loose their identities.

    Perhaps we should look on this kind of misguided experiment with another perspective. All over the world we have thousands and thousands of starving girls, who starvs only because they are girls and have less value than boys according to society. For me that is a fact who tells me there need to be a correction and if Egalia preschool with 33 pupils are trying to participate in such a correction but in a corporeal manner it only shows me that they are trying to make humans out of the children… and we must not forget… all is coming from the spiritual world as Dr Laitman wrote above.

    Thoughts from my point of view!


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