Answer: Your development does not depend on whether you are a fish or a bird, but on whether you want to get closer to the group where you find yourself. The Creator has not brought you to it for no reason.
This means that you can choose your friends and together you should try to create such cooperation between you to establish such a relationship that will absolutely resemble the right corrected soul.
If there is mutual bestowal in the group, mutual love, and mutual support, you will begin to feel the Creator’s presence in it.
We will suddenly feel more power in our common desire to be together in the ten, more power of connection, of mutual reliance, of mutual attraction, and a good and wise power that will gradually determine our spiritual state, and this will be the gradual revelation of the Creator.
Everything will become very simple. Begin to connect between you in a nice way and you will undoubtedly reveal the power of the good in this connection.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah” 7/14/19