Question: How does a person discern the true Hisaron (lack) for which he raises a prayer?

Answer: A person alone is unable to determine this because it is impossible to truly want bestowal while existing separately from others (without a society or group). You simply do not have the necessary conditions for attaining a Hisaron for spirituality, or even a Hisaron for a Hisaron. These conditions simply do not exist within you.

Only by working in a group, with friends, do you begin to see that you have no real concern for them and do not understand what benefit there is in them. Then you say to yourself: “Very well, I will tolerate them. At least the group gives me some framework for work.”

A you progress, you discover that the friends provide you not only with a framework for work but also with various blows. They awaken sensations within you that, at the very least, jolt you, shake you up, and anger you. With time, you realize that if it were not for this treatment, the reaction and the stimulation from the group, you would have remained asleep for several more cycles of incarnations.

Then you begin to appreciate them, at least a little, and you discover that through a friend you can understand and feel something, that he can, in some way, serve as a supportive tool for you.

And so it continues until, somehow, it finally dawns on you that unless you take what exists in the friend from him, you will have no vessel in which to receive spirituality. Because spiritual attainment is received only through inclusion within the friend. Within you, there will never arise a Hisaron in which you can feel spirituality. Your true vessel is in the friend.

If you were to live like a hermit in some cave or jungle, you would not be able to attain spirituality on your own. You need a group for this. How many people? It does not matter; it could be a group of five, ten people.

At first, you hate the fact that your spiritual progress depends on other people. But eventually, you come to understand and accept this condition. Gradually, you even begin to desire it; you even make efforts for it and work within the group.

To the extent of your contribution to the group and your acceptance of dependence on the friends, you see how much you are or are not able to connect with them. It is revealed to you that you are unable to unite with anyone at all. And this is a direct indication that you are unable to achieve closeness and adhesion with the Creator. It is one and the same thing.

Now you understand that the group constitutes the revelation of the Creator in this world; in any other form His manifestation in the material world is impossible. The group is given to us as a compass, a unit of measurement, and a map that allows us to determine our location relative to the Creator and to recognize Him. Society acts as a kind of instrument indicating where you stand in relation to Him.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 5/14/26, Rabash, “What Is, “If a Woman Inseminates First, She Delivers a Male Child,” in the Work?”

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