Speak Not with Words, but with Feelings

565.02Question: Today we look at our world, at humanity, and we see that everyone is shouting. Even on television shows. They sit a meter apart from each other and shout nonstop. What should people, humanity, do so that shouting would at least turn into conversation?

Answer: A person sitting opposite me should take my hand and begin to persuade me calmly, in a soft voice, even in a whisper, about what he wants.

Question: And in that case, should he want something for me?

Answer: Yes. He wants to tell me something. His message should be conveyed in exactly this form, in this manner, from the heart so that I can open my heart in response. And everything can flow from one heart into another.

Comment: You are describing an ideal picture of people sitting and wanting to pass warmth to one another.

My Response: And we, the viewers, watch this on television and feel glad that today they invited the right, normal people. We enjoy listening to them. They say very little, yet we understand everything.

Comment: You are talking about an ideal state, not really of our world. As far as I know, you do not particularly watch television. But it is enough just to look.

Answer: I certainly do not watch such programs.

Question: Yes, there are such shows—rings, a fight going on. It is no coincidence that beating someone up is now considered a sport. And here it is the same thing; they are beating each other up verbally. But humanity will not come to anything through this shouting, will it?

Answer: No, of course not.

Comment: Meaning that everyone will prove that they are right and…

My Response: They are not proving anything; they simply do not hear one another.

Comment: Yes, exactly, they do not hear.

My Response: The main thing for them is: when he is speaking, I am speaking. That is all.

Question: I want to understand. I keep asking this practical question all the time: How does one move to conversation? What is required?

Answer: Many more years will pass. Time itself must act. And it will, as it were, explain to both interlocutors, or to a group of people, that this is useless, it is not worth engaging in this. And gradually they will lose the desire to participate in such talk shows.

Then some kind of a turning point will come, and they will stop producing these “circus performances.” That is how I see it. And only afterward will a serious expression of intentions take place.

Question: So, do you think that this fight will exhaust itself?

Answer: This must happen.

Question: Will this come from above?

Answer: Certainly from above. There is no doubt about this at all.

Question: Do you think it will not come from us?

Answer: No, nothing good can come from us.

Question: So it will come from above: “Be silent. Be calm”?

Answer: Yes, let’s sit and be silent. That will be the program.

Question: So they will already become disappointed with us from above? Why would that suddenly happen?

Answer: No one above becomes disappointed. And who are we to be disappointed with?
Therefore, we will simply come to such a form of program that it will be transmitted through feelings. Not words—feelings. After all, we need to do something with ourselves.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 12/24/25

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