When You Feel at Ease with Someone
Question: What would you call a sincere connection?
Answer: It is when you are understood. But that isn’t necessarily a good thing either. A person is left with very little of their true self in such a situation. After all, it is true that we don’t really want to open up.
Question: Yes, we are guarded, of course. So, what is a sincere connection?
Answer: I don’t know. It is when you feel at ease with a person. But with whom can you feel at ease, and consistently feel at ease?
Comment: That is also a problem.
My Response: Of course.
Question: What is a genuine connection?
Answer: A real connection is one in which you love a person and constantly want to do good for them.
Comment: You suddenly turned everything upside down. Instead of it being good for me, you say it should be good for the other person. And that is called a connection.
My Response: Yes. When I feel that I want to do good for them.
Question: If we are speaking about the upper one, about the Creator, what is a real connection?
Answer: That involves an equivalence of form. It means that I relate to the Creator in the same way that He relates to me. For that, I must change my nature, which, incidentally, is the nature He created in me. Therefore, I must ask Him to change it. That request itself is the connection.
Question: Can such a request be sincere?
Answer: Partly. Until I ask with complete sincerity.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 6/5/26
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