When we get together, the agenda should be defined from the outset. In other words, everyone, to the best of his ability, should speak about the importance of the group, about what benefit the group gives him. In accordance with his expectations that the group will give him something important, something that he himself cannot achieve, to that extent he listens to the group.

And the reason for this is to initially build the greatness of the group, the goals of nature, and the necessity of achieving it. For it is precisely to the extent of the greatness of the goal that he will be able to make efforts above his ego, cancel his opinion before the opinion of the group, and act not only for the sake of the group but also for the sake of nature, its wholeness. With such direction of his thoughts, he will feel the help of all the forces of nature.

The same applies to love of friends. Before we gather, it is necessary to build the importance of the friends, the importance of each of them. And to the extent that he appreciates the greatness of the group, he can treat the group with respect. And after that, check himself to see how much effort he is making for the benefit of the group. And if he finds out that he has no strength to do anything for the benefit of the group, then there is a place to turn to the group with a request for strength and desire to work toward achieving love for one’s neighbor.

And if he turned to the group even in thoughts, he must be sure that he will receive the strength to unite and check himself whether he is in joy, as an indicator that he believes in the power of the group and the willingness to help him to achieve correction.

And, since in this case all the friends represent one desire, he wants to see everyone in enjoyment. Therefore, after all the calculations, the time comes for the joy of love of friends. And each one should feel happy as if he has just done a good deed and by this earned a lot of money. And now, as is customary in this world, he treats his friends.

Similarly, it is here as well: each one should make sure that his friend is being cared for, because now he is happy and wants his friends to feel good. Therefore, the conclusion of the meeting should take place on a joyful note and in inspiration. And then everyone will feel perfection.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson, Rabash, Article 17 (1984), “The Agenda of the Assembly – 2”

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