Question: Being at the congress means being integrated with everyone. But on the other hand, I want to do it quickly and run away, sit in a corner, and observe from the side what is happening. But one came from far away, overcame so much, and must integrate with the friends. How can we work with this state?
Answer: I think you need to detach from your “I.” Leave everything that arises in you for later, for when you go back home.
Do whatever everyone else does and try to feel what everyone else feels. You should not run to a corner and plunge into reflections and different thoughts. Participate as much as you can in the general common motion, in the common game, in the common action.
From KabTV’s “Fundamentals of Kabbalah” 2/13/19