Entries in the 'New Life' Category

New Life 985 – Bitterness In Relationships

New Life 985 – Bitterness In Relationships
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

We feel bitter when we don’t get something we want or expect and our egos are subsequently harmed. Instead of removing bitterness by lowering our expectations, we need to understand the root of the problem. Partners must learn about egoism and how “all who condemn do so with their own defect.” The wisdom of Kabbalah teaches us how to bring our hearts closer together and discover the upper world in a group framework. It is up to us to heal our relationship to the world with the help of the power of love and then the bitterness will disappear and everything will be corrected, good, sweet, and beautiful.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 985 – Bitterness In Relationships,” 3/25/18

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New Life 978 – Good Deeds

New Life 978 – Good Deeds
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Yael Leshed-Harel

What is a good deed and how does it affect the giver and the recipient, what is the connection between health and good deeds, and how does a good relationship affect the rest of the world? The highest development is to benefit others in order to connect to a higher power, to God, to the absolute good. According to the wisdom of Kabbalah, up to 10% of the population naturally enjoys giving. This wisdom teaches how to “love your neighbor as yourself” so that we can attain higher level forces. Relating positively to each other develops our soul since giving has the force of life. God is nature, a system that connects all the details of reality with the power of giving and love.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 978 – Good Deeds,” 3/13/18

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New Life #35 – Chocolate-Coated Garbage, Part 2

New Life #35 – Chocolate-Coated Garbage, Part 2
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Summary

Couples could live in palaces but remain unhappy until they learn how to connect with each other above the “garbage” between them. They need to acknowledge the garbage by repeatedly engaging in various exercises together and then setting goals to live together above it. They will get support for this by meeting with a group of couples every week. Their education needs to include how to give each other a good attitude and attention, how to forgive at the right time and in the right way, and how to do everything lovingly and from the heart.
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From KabTV’s “New Life #35 –Chocolate-Coated Garbage, Part 2,” 7/16/12

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New Life #34 – Chocolate-Coated Garbage, Part 1

New Life #34 – Chocolate-Coated Garbage, Part 1
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Summary

The relationship connection is like a home laboratory in which each partner can begin to study themselves and their partner. Dr. Michael Laitman shares exercises and techniques of how to create a happy relationship, and through a happy relationship, how to achieve love for the entire world.

Partners should speak freely and honestly with each other about human nature, without shame or fear, sharing objectively, with love for one another, and not taking anything personally. The resulting “pile of garbage” between them needs to be removed or covered. This is done by remembering the most perfect moment in their lives, freezing it, and living in it. They talk about it and share heartfelt praises with each other. Finally, the partners share their biggest and most intimate desires with each other and take them on as their own.
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Form KabTV’s “New Life #34 – Chocolate Coated Garbage, Part 1,” 7/12/12

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New Life #33 – Transcendence And Fulfilling Your Partner

New Life #33 – Transcendence And Fulfilling Your Partner
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Summary

Couples need to learn how to apply the principle, “And you shall love your friend as yourself” in their relationships. This can only be done with the help of a supportive environment in which all the couples want to fight against the human ego. In workshops, we can learn to transcend criticism by relating to our partners as though they were already perfected. We can learn to fill all the deficiencies between us with love and become one body in truth.
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From KabTV’s “New Life #33 – Transcendence And Fulfilling Your Partner” 7/12/12

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New Life 32 – New Kind Of Relationships

New Life 32 – New Kind Of Relationships
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Your partner is not your enemy! The human ego is the common enemy you both must learn to fight together! Couples need other couples to provide good examples of how to rise above the ego and accept one another. Rather than expecting appreciation from my partner, I can upgrade my ego and overcome the lack that erupts between us with the power of love.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 32 – New Kind of Relationships,” 7/11/12

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New Life 31 – Love Above Egoism

New Life 31 – Love Above Egoism
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

What change does a person have to undergo in order to have a happy relationship and why is the right relationship the key to success in every other aspect of life?

A relationship is like a lab for a good life. A family is a small home lab for correcting a person’s attitude to others. As such, a person gains in life’s every aspect. This method can then be spread to other social relationships and the entire world.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 31 – Love Above Egoism,” 7/11/12

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New Life 30 – Interpersonal Communication

New Life 30 – Interpersonal Communication
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

In interpersonal communication and listening, each one understands that the world is his or her own picture. I see my own corruptions before me and realize that I have to try to ascend above all the corruptions and establish connection withs others. If both partners in the relationship participate in this process, they help each other and forgive each other.
From KabTV’s “New Life 30 – Interpersonal Communication,” 7/2/12

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New Life 29 – The Future Of Human Education

New Life 29 – The Future Of Human Education
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

We are facing the need for an absolute change, an innovation in human education. We are disconnected in every facet of life. Education needs to rebuild each person in order for the family unit to survive. We can only be educated in this way through exposure to a new type of environment that will provide a good example to us regarding relationships and social life. This environment will show each person how to get to know and understand his true nature, what life can be like, and how to get there together.
From KabTV’s “New Life 29 – The Future of Human Education,” 7/2/12

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New Life 28 – Infidelity, Sex And Emotion

New Life 28 – Infidelity, Sex And Emotion
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi, Nitzah Mazoz and Orit Dolev

How is it possible to help a partner who has been sexually or emotionally betrayed? Does understanding the difference in the type of betrayal help in preserving the family? The power of the relationship is in the hands of the woman.
From KabTV’s “New Life 28 – Infidelity, Sex And Emotion,” 7/1/12

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