New Life #46 – Making Room For Love
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Summary

We create common territory in our relationships when each one concedes his own egoistic nature and makes room inside himself for the demands of the other. We actually acquire the powers and abilities of other people when we make their desires more important than our own. It is worthwhile to try to elevate the mood of others because happiness opens their hearts. We can express our love by giving gifts without expecting anything in return.

Nevertheless, it is important to build balance between judgment and mercy. We must find the middle line between concessions to others and our own demands. Clearly show that you have a good attitude on condition that you get a reciprocal response. That is how we build unity, connection, relationships, and a family.
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From KabTV’s “New Life #46 – Making Room For Love,” 8/1/12

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New Life #45 – Sex And Family
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Summary

Maintaining sexual connection is of great importance to the partnership and for family life. Passion is aroused through mutual work on connection above the ego. After the natural attraction becomes routine and boring, partners need to work together on their minds in order to renew their desire. Partners can then get closer by conceding to one another lovingly above hatred, by exemplifying self-restraint when friction arises, and by demonstrating appreciation and complimenting each other. By doing so, couples fulfill each other, creating loyalty and connection.
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From KabTV’s “New Life #45 – Sex And Family,” 8/1/12

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New Life #44 – True Love
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Summary

Love is the feeling we build in the space created by mutual concession. We transform clashes between us into opportunities for love and connection by living above our egoistic natures. We make efforts in the same way a mother does with her child, by giving up her own comforts in order to provide the child with what he wants. We bring Light into our lives when we do this and feel that we lack nothing. We elevate ourselves above reality.
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From KabTV’s “New Life #44 – True Love,” 7/12/12

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New Life #43 – Upgrading Relationships
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Summary

Couple and family relationships are given by nature to teach us how to create a feeling of love through the mind. These relationships teach us how to grow love above all transgressions. We learn how to rein in the natural human ego that evolves from generation to generation. In order to mature as a couple, we need to recognize our egoistic limits and those of our partner as well as learn how to put the brain above the heart (or ego). In other words, we make mutual concessions for each other and create space inside ourselves for our partner’s desires.
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From KabTV’s “New Life #43 – Upgrading Relationships,” 7/30/12

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New Life #42 – Connection Is The Key To Fulfillment
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Summary

Connection can solve all our problems. We can be fulfilled only through others and can never fulfill ourselves. A feeling of vitality, health, relaxation, happiness, security, support, warmth, love, and mutual responsibility will awaken in you if you feel that your partner is within you, ready to help you with everything. When we take on the emotions and thoughts of our partner, we see the world their way. We build an integral system and acquire the tools we need in order to perceive an unlimited world.
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From KabTV’s “New Life #42 – Connection Is The Key To Fulfillment,” 7/26/12

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New Life 1011 – Loyalty To Myself
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Yael Leshed-Harel

Without discovery of the Creator, a person is loyal to his ego and is unaware that the ego manages him to his detriment. It will not help a person to be loyal to himself because he doesn’t see the big picture or the desire of the Creator. The wider picture involves us emptying ourselves of what we naturally desire and filling ourselves with the power of love for others. It is necessary to work in a group with a teacher in order to understand this method of discovering the higher power. When the person attains equivalence of form with the Creator, he becomes one with the Creator and can then be loyal to himself.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 1011 – Loyalty To Myself,” 5/13/18

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New Life 1010 – Loyalty
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Yael Leshed-Harel

In the future, loyalty will reach a negligible level so that we will search for the only power that it is possible to rely upon. People cannot be blamed for lacking loyalty since we are all acting according to our inherent, egoistic tendencies. Being loyal to the characteristics of the Creator gives a person security and makes him stronger, greater, and whole. Loyalty to the Creator will not dissipate because the desire to bestow goodness doesn’t come on account of others and it therefore increasingly grows.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 1010 – Loyalty,” 5/13/18

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New Life 1009 – Education For A Healthy Imagination
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Tal Mandelbaum ben Moshe

Children’s education should include discussion about the Creator as the general force of nature and how we get closer to the Creator when we get closer to each other, as well as how to differentiate between this truth and imagination. For example, if children are exposed to content in which still, vegetative, and animate levels of reality speak, parents should explain that this does not happen in reality. Children should be protected by loving parents who avoid talking about death since they cannot accept this. A healthy imagination revolves around depicting a good future for people and society at large.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 1009 – Education for a Healthy Imagination,” 5/8/18

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New Life 41 – The Reason To Marry: To Love By Fulfilling The Desires Of Others
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

True love enables a person to be connected to eternity. By exiting ourselves, making concessions to one another, and dressing in our partner’s desires and thoughts, we become one body again just like Adam and Eve. We see an opposite world, meaning a world that exists above our egos. This is a new world where we cannot be hurt. If we define couple relationships as a lab for self-development as human beings, as a springboard to a new life, then we have a good reason to connect.
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From KabTV’s “New Life 41 – The Reason To Marry: To Love Love By Fulfilling The Desires Of Others,” 7/26/12

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New Life 40 – The Key To A Good Relationship Is Mutual Concession
Dr. Michael Laitman in conversation with Oren Levi and Nitzah Mazoz

Love is built above our differences by conscious, mutual concessions. Being connected means that each partner accepts what is important to the other as their own desire. When we have the right attitude toward our partner, we acquire new discernments and transform our senses. Couples can discover that this is the secret of life. They can reach a new era in their lives, a new dimension of perceiving themselves as a couple, and a new way of perceiving the whole world.
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From KavTV’s “New Life 40 – The Key To A Good Relationship Is Mutual Concession,” 7/25/12

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