Question: How does Bina, who did not want to receive, suddenly discover that she must receive “in order to bestow?”
Answer: At the level of “to bestow in order to bestow” (GAR de-Bina), when Bina becomes similar to the Creator in that she does not receive, she discovers that the Creator is also a giver. Hence, she realizes that she has to give. But what can she give?
The Creator gives to her and she feels His love in this. Therefore, she understands that if she no longer refuses to receive and begins receiving from Him, this will give Him enormous delight, causing her to use the desire to receive, but in order to bestow to Him (ZAT de Bina).
From the 4th part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/2/10, “Mighty Rock of My Salvation”