If, instead of focusing on each child individually (who he is and what he does), we shift emphasis specifically on children’s connection with each other and on their connection with adults, and if in the process of education we facilitate a person’s connection with his or her environment, then he will evolve correctly internally as well.
Indeed, all of our inner qualities, inclinations, and genes are not subject to correction. They are given to us only to be in contact with other people.
This entire system was created completely opposite to its current state. We were merged into one common desire to such a degree that none of us was noticeable or perceived at all. Only after the breaking of this system did we divide into “me,” “you,” and “him.”
Therefore, our personalities do not demand any correction. They will disappear as we create correct ties and become incorporated into each other.
Only these connections or absence thereof define how a person is viewed by the society and how correctly he works and realizes himself in it.
From the 4th part of the Daily Kabbalah Lesson 12/10/10, “The Freedom”